The California Honeydrops play at Terminal West in Atlanta, Georgia. [Nikon D5, 28-300mm ƒ/3.5-5.6, ISO 25600, ƒ/5.6, 1/200]
One of the most fun things I ever did in my years of playing trumpet was sit in on a JAM Session.
A jam session is a relatively informal musical event, process, or activity where musicians, typically instrumentalists, play improvised solos and vamp on tunes, songs, and chord progressions. To “jam” is to improvise music without extensive preparation or predefined arrangements, except when the group plays well-known jazz standards or covers of existing popular songs. Musicians often use original jam sessions and ‘free flow sessions’ to develop new material (music) and find suitable arrangements. – Wikipedia
For me, this is one of the best artistic renderings of what it is like to have good friends.
Many people never take their bands out of garages and enjoy the time of sharing music.
This gives and takes in the Jam Session, where bands form their bonds and write new music.
I get a lot of phone calls where someone is trying to sell me something. The sad thing is that often this is from my “friends.”
I have a small group of friends calling to catch up and talk about anything. We find that our spouses are often reminding us we have been on the phone too long. That is a good friend when the two of you get lost in time.
The funny thing is that most of my closest friends were musicians. They understand we need others for our creativity to be pushed, and we need friendship due to how lonely often it is being an artist.
Then there are the formal groups where I worked with people with the hope of building friendships. I served on industry boards and helped with many conferences for years.
When I needed to leave those roles for several reasons, I often sent letters to the group explaining my departure. Sadly only one person at the most ever reached out to say thanks or check to be sure everything was alright.
I have often talked about my mentor Don Rutledge and his impact on my life and many of my closest friends.
Don had an open door policy. If he wasn’t editing, the door of his office was empty. He had regular visitors through the years of all different levels of photography. He treated them all the same. Usually, he looked at their work and then would ask one of the other staff photographers to join him for a few minutes before asking the photo staff to go to lunch with him and the new acquaintance.
One day I was eating dinner with Don and his wife, Lucy. I said to them how much I appreciated his openness. Then Lucy got very serious. She was upset at how many photographers came by, and Don gave them some pointers, and they even went to Black Star, his agency in NYC, to try and take his work. They never came back again and just used Don.
Don bowed his head and felt a little shame. He never stopped welcoming people.
Don was trying to develop long-lasting friendships. He would call photographers and mention he saw their work and compliment them. He wrote letters all the time telling people what he thought and often gave little tips that were most of the time welcomed.
Matthew 22:37-40
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
Rodeo at Parker Ranch, Waimea, The Big Island of Hawaii [Nikon D750, Sigma 24-105mm ƒ/4, ISO 100, ƒ/4, 1/1000]
Every once in a while, I like to go back through older photo shoots and look through them. I sometimes find photos I glanced over that are much better than I first noticed.
I use the software PhotoMechanic for my culling and reviewing of photos.
I can make the photo large and also see all the information about the camera settings on the right of the image.
This is quite helpful for evaluating a photo. Why isn’t the image sharp? The shutter speed helps you see if it was fast enough to eliminate camera or subject motion.
I also like clicking on seeing the photo 1:1, so I can evaluate down to the pixels.
I am doing this with images I have already edited through Adobe Lightroom. If I think I could do a better job now than, say, when I first did the edit or that Lightroom now has tools that were not available when I first edited the photo, I may go back to the RAW image and work on it again.
When you first edit a photograph, you are on a deadline—having the luxury of a lot more time to evaluate photos, I find that I seldom feel much different than I did at the time of the first edit.
One thing I notice a great deal when I go back a few years or more is that the cameras have improved. In 2006 when I took this photo of the dear, I owned the Nikon D2X camera. This was a cropped 12-megapixel sensor with a usable ISO range of 100 to 800.
Just this Wednesday night, I was shooting at a music venue with my Nikon D5, a full sensor, and ISO 40000 to get this photo above. Basically, with the Nikon D2X, this photo wouldn’t have been possible.
Too often, when I look back at photos where I was hand holding the camera, the shutter speed wasn’t high enough to eliminate movement.
While this is a very recent photo of the Hawk in our backyard, it is so sharp because it isn’t the shutter speed as much as I was on a tripod.
I recommend you go back through your photos and not just look for great moments, but evaluate them for sharpness. If they are not sharp, then ask yourself, why not? Look at the camera data and see if you can learn from your older photos.
While shooting is a great way to improve your photos, learning to take the time and evaluate pictures for how to improve them next time technically can mean that when you do shoot again, you will not make those same mistakes due to not having the camera on the best setting.
On trumpet, the California Honeydrops’ Lech Wierzynski plays with Ben Malament on the washboard at Terminal West in Atlanta, Georgia. [Nikon D5, 28-300mm, ISO 6400, ƒ/5.6, 1/200]
For my wife’s birthday, we went to Terminal West, a concert venue in Atlanta, Georgia, to hear The California Honeydrops play.
I am thrilled I brought my Nikon D5 and Nikkor 28-3oomm ƒ/3.5-5.6, so I could capture some of the band playing for our family album.
The California Honeydrops don’t just play music—they throw parties. Drawing on diverse musical influences, including Bay Area R&B, funk, Southern soul, Delta blues, and New Orleans second-line, they have taken those parties worldwide, playing festivals of all kinds and touring widely across North America, Europe, and Australia. The band was honored to travel with Bonnie Raitt on her 2016 North American album release tour and, in the past, has been privileged to support the likes of B.B. King, Allen Toussaint, Buddy Guy, and Dr. John. Whether playing for audiences of thousands or in intimate venues where they can leave the stage and get down on the dance floor, the California Honeydrops’ shared vision and purpose remain: to make the audience dance and sing.
Founded by vocalist and multi-instrumentalist Lech Wierzynski and percussionist Ben Malament, The Honeydrops started busking on the streets of the San Francisco Bay Area, where they quickly developed a passionate local following. But the band’s roots stretch back to Wierzynski’s childhood in Poland, where he soaked up the sounds of contraband American recordings by Sam Cooke, Ray Charles, and Louis Armstrong. Later, as a first-generation immigrant to the U.S. and child of political refugees, he assimilated himself by devouring American rock & roll, soul, jazz, and hip-hop recordings. His musical immersion continued at Oberlin College and on the club circuit in Oakland, California.
Growing up playing trumpet all the way into college bands and singing for the church, I loved the group’s sound. Their music is eclectic because most bands have a more narrow style.
Hearing a washboard being played with a horn section was just amazing. The syncopation and groove made me feel like I was enjoying the musicians in a garage jam session where they were playing for the love of the music rather than for performance only.
Terminal West was one of the best venues in Atlanta that I have been to for a small intimate band experience.
The cost of our tickets was only $15 each. The food was also great and reasonably priced.
They had two bars, and the staff was excellent.
We will be looking for more bands playing at Terminal West shortly.
Robin Nelson encouraged me for years to cover the Atlanta Pride Parade.
Each year UGA’s Photojournalism students are asked by their teacher Mark Johnson to shadow a working professional photojournalist. Kayla Renie contacted Robin to follow her shooting. Robin suggested she follow her at the Atlanta Pride Parade.
The mission of the Atlanta Pride Committee is to advance unity, visibility, and wellness among persons with widely diverse gender and sexual identities through cultural, social, political, and educational programs and activities.
Kayla did her interview on the front end of the coverage since Robin would have to leave for another engagement before the parade was done.
Things get confrontational when the parade hits the intersection of 10th Street and Piedmont. A “Christian” group stood at the street corner holding signs denouncing not just the LGBTQ community but Muslims, Women who work outside the home, and the list went on and on.
What interested me was how the “Christian” group would pick people out and start yelling at them. All based on what they perceived as a person deserving condemnation.
I put the “Christian” group in quotes because this created a great deal of tension in my gut. Robin approached me at one point and asked if covering something like this can give you PTSD [Post Traumatic Stress Disorder] from covering an event.
According to the Dart Center for Journalism & Trauma, “Journalists frequently bear witness to human suffering whether covering mass disasters or individual atrocities; however, little is known regarding the impact of such exposure on the well-being of journalists. Researchers in the field of traumatic stress are only beginning to examine the toll this line of work may have on the health of journalists.”
“Research suggests that 80-100% of journalists have been exposed to a work-related traumatic event.”
When a protestor gets in the journalist’s face and starts to yell, this can be very traumatic. If the journalists feel they are in physical danger, this can trigger a traumatic experience that the brain has difficulty processing.
I watched as Kayla and Robin took moments to talk to each other to process all they were seeing, hearing, and most of all feeling from covering such an event.
According to research on PTSD reported by the Dart Center, you can have a personal experience with work-related stressors such as experiencing Aggression, Intimidation, or Moral Injury.
The hardest part for Robin, Kayla, and even me today was that each of us is professing Christians who disagreed with the tactics of this “Christian” group. It was running opposite our beliefs of how to act as a Christian.
Other Christians have felt this way and created signs that reflect a different position and declare that all those in the Atlanta Pride events could also be Christians.
Each of those polar opposite groups believed that the others were wrong and right.
This man confronts Robin, saying he wasn’t part of their group. This is when Robin wanted a friendly conversation and said, “I am a born-again believer as well.” I think the photo reveals the posturing that was happening between them. One wanted dialogue, and one wanted just to judge.
So how does a person cover an event as a “journalist” when they have all these feelings? How do you protect something when you may pick one of the sides personally because of your belief system?
This was what Robin was trying to teach Kayla that day as she shadowed Robin. Robin has been able to bring her faith into her work and not leave it behind. She believes that everyone is God’s child. This means everyone deserves to be treated with honor, dignity, and respect, even when wearing a strange outfit.
As a journalist, you do all you can to be sure you let both sides be represented in the coverage. If you are aware of your bias and acknowledge it, you have a better chance of overcoming the bias.
This photo was as close as I came to showing both sides. The “Christian” Group was first on the corner, and then you could hear the crowd roar as a group carrying Pansies came down the sidewalk.
They called themselves the Pansy Patrol. They had whistles to blow and these giant pansies on sticks. Their mission was to block as many of the “Christian” group’s protest banners and make enough noise to drown them out with their whistles.
Still, some chose to be more aggressive to the “Christians.”
They not only confronted the group but took selfies in front of their banners, mocking them on social media.
When you are at an event like Atlanta’s Pride Weekend, where hundreds of thousands of people are expected to attend the parade, which ends at Piedmont Park, you have to be able to cover the event for your news outlet. You also have not editorialized your coverage to be more of an activist with a plan about the event.
If you want to do this, you may find a job with an organization that fits your beliefs and do social activism, but don’t consider this the same as journalism.
Robin told me that the Atlanta Pride Parade had become more commercial than in the early years. I saw many corporations participating in the parade.
Each company had its #hashtag and was there to let everyone know they supported the LGBTQ community. I included them in my photos to show how the corporate community supported the event.
While it was a tough assignment for Kayla to jump into with all the emotions surrounding the Atlanta Pride event, I think she enjoyed watching a professional photojournalist like Robin do her job and be able to ask her questions to help her understand how she might have to cover something outside her comfort zone in the future as a photojournalist herself.
Robin and I were impressed with Kayla’s eagerness to learn and how well she interacted with people throughout the day.
The best moments for celebration are when we have set goals that took a great deal of effort to achieve.
At The Citadel, there is the fourth class system. The purpose of the Fourth Class System at The Citadel is to provide a base upon which a fourth class cadet may develop those qualities essential to a good leader.
Although the System is demanding and complex, the rewards are considerable and more than justify the effort. Upon recognition by the upper-class cadets in the spring of the Knob year, a better person emerges – one who is mentally, morally, physically, and spiritually prepared to accept the responsibilities of leadership – a role which will ultimately be his/hers at The Citadel and in the world.
Isn’t that the purpose of setting goals and meeting them? You are better at taking action to meet those goals.
Don’t just create a goal without much thought about what you are setting up for yourself.
My faith teaches me to pray about decisions. Take some time and allow God to speak to you. He will give you the peace of making a decision, and your chances of achieving the goal are not just better, but the reward is often much better than when we pursue vanity.
I find that making goals where others are there to support you as they do in the Fourth Class system at The Citadel means you have a better chance of achieving them.
The Citadel has an above average at retaining students past the first year with an 86.0% retention rate.
Based on the caliber of first-time/full-time students attending Citadel Military College of South Carolina, we expect an overall graduation rate of 58.3%. However, students are graduating at a rate that is 9.1% higher. That means Citadel Military College of South Carolina is performing above average at graduating students based on those students’ anticipated academic achievement in college.
Do you have a goal that you are working on in your life? If not–Why Not?
Praise band singing at the Summerall Chapel on the Citadel Campus. [Nikon D5, Sigma 24-105mm ƒ/4 Art, ISO 7200, ƒ/4, 1/100]
This past Sunday, my wife Dorie Griggs was asked to give the message for Parent’s Weekend at the Summerall Chapel on The Citadel by Chaplain to the Corps of Cadets and Director of Religious Activities Joe Molina.
Dorie introduced the concept that often, we live either in the mindset of Good Friday, the Saturday in between, or Resurrection Sunday.
I came prepared to videotape Dorie speaking for our records and to share with friends and family that couldn’t be there.
Listen to her message here. Many people commented on how much they appreciated the notification.
Now before Dorie’s sermon, The Citadel’s Gospel Choir sang.
I didn’t plan on shooting a video of them singing, or I would have been further back. But please listen to them sing.
I enjoyed seeing the joy on the cadet’s faces.
Now the service was a lot of pomp and circumstance. They have a Color Guard bring the colors in to start the service.
Here are a few tips if you decide to cover your church service.
Talk to the minister first to get permission.
Arrive Early
Stand on the stage and get a custom white balance.
If videotaping, use a wireless Lavalier microphone for the speaker
Plan your moves around so that it is at a minimum
Recommend zoom for less movement versus a fixed lens
Upload your photos to an online gallery like PhotoShelter
The Summerall Guards perform half-time at the Parent’ss Weekend football game at The Citadel in Charleston, SC. [Nikon D5, Sigma 120-300mm ƒ/2.8 S, Sigma TC-2001, ISO 1000, ƒ/5.6, 1/4000]
Knowing your subject gives you insights into what makes a better photo than any photo.
My son was a Summerall Guard at the Citadel in the class of 2011. During this time, I took more photos of them performing and started to see these moments that gave you insights into how they communicate during a silent drill.
The facial expressions showed them counting to themselves or breathing loudly so those around them would hear. This lets them know if they were together in their counts and moves.
The Summerall Guard was formed in 1932. Membership is considered a high honor at the military college. The platoon aims to exemplify the exactness and thoroughness of a cadet’s training through a unique series of movements based on the old German close-order drill. The exercise is performed to a silent count. Each year’s Guards take responsibility for teaching the following year’s unit the precise drill.
In sports, very similar predictable moments happen as well. I know that if I am covering a team like The Citadel, they are trying to get to the goal they are facing. So even on defense, if a fumble or interception happens, the players will try and go towards the goal.
I like to stand or kneel in the endzone where they are going so I can see their faces. If I am on the sideline, I sometimes get their faces, but when I am facing them, the percentage of photos with their faces seems to be a loCitadel’sfor photos.
Their extra effort on the play will be them lunging toward the goal line, which is where I am standing.
The offensive linemen are creating holes for the running backs facing that goal line.
Even if they are stopped, their expressions usually show that they are putting it all on the line. This type of tackle photo works well on sports pages when the guy just got a first down.
As you can see in both the examples of the Citadel cadets, if they are on the Summerall Guards or playing a sport, the facial expression draws the audience into the photograph.
What you want to show as the photographer is the effort; one of the best ways to capture this is in the expressions.
By the way, we were at The Citadel due to a request for my wife, Dorie Griggs, to preach on Sunday. So here is her message if you would like to hear it.
He was spraying bug spray for protection during the parade for Corps Day Weekend at The Citadel in Charleston, SC. [Nikon D3, Sigma 120-300mm, 2X, ISO 200, ƒ/4, 1/1250]
Too many photographers do not spend enough time editing their photos. Editing has many different stages of the process. The very first step is that of culling. I want to address culling today for this blog.
Culling describes reducing the population of (a wild animal) by selective slaughter.
While there are maybe more definitions, I think this one will help you remember you will take the entire shoot and narrow it down to the keepers.
When using PhotoMechanic as my editing tool, I first go one by one and look at each image’s full-screen size after I ingest all the photos. I then press the “T” key to keep the ones that are:
In focus
Well Exposed
Good or great moment – If I have a series of sports plays, I may only keep 2 or 3 of 20 to 30 images of a play.
Can see faces/No back of heads – If someone starts to turn away from me or someone blocks them, I don’t keep those that you cannot see their faces.
Good expressions – When people are giving a speech, I eliminate those awkward expressions. The same as avoiding people putting food in their mouths. No blinks of the critical people in the photo.
After I have tagged the keepers, I select all the untagged photos and delete them. For an event, this may well be 80% of the images. For studio portraits, more than 20% will be deleted.
Too many photographers often think this is the only photo I have of someone, and I don’t want to leave them out. So they put up their social media or gallery for people to see an out-of-focus, back of the head, and badly exposed photo so that the person knows they took their picture.
It is much easier to take photos and then post everyone you took than to take the time to go through and eliminate all the images that a client would never publish. If you can’t imagine a commercial client taking your photo and putting it up on a billboard to sell their product due to focus, exposure, and seeing the people’s faces, then don’t put it up on social media.
More people will have the opportunity to see your photo published on social media than will ever drive by the billboard, so get rid of anything that shouldn’t be issued for the world to see.
There are two main reasons to edit your photos to the best ones and eliminate all those that shouldn’t be published.
The first reason is treating people with honor, dignity, and respect. If you publish a photo of a person, they will regret being of them; you have damaged them. Now I will admit that sometimes there are photos that people don’t like of themselves even if they are beautiful photos of them. There are just some people that wouldn’t want any image.
There is a second reason to cull a photo out of your take–Your Reputation!
You want to think of yourself as a photographer and not a hack. We use this to describe poor golfers as well. But you don’t want to have a reputation as a hack regarding photography.
You want people to invite you to their events and not to tell you to come but leave your camera at home.
[Nikon D5, Sigma 35mm ƒ/1.4, ISO 900, ƒ/1.4, 1/100]
What lenses do you take on a job? I might take all I can, but a better question might be which ones you try to use the most.
One lens I have loved to use a lot these past couple of years is the Sigma 35mm ƒ/1.4 Art lens. It is so sharp.
I love to fill the frame, get pretty close to people, and let that background go out of focus, giving that smooth BOKEH. Bokeh has been defined as “the way the lens renders out-of-focus points of light.”
The cool thing beyond the BOKEH is shooting a much lower ISO than you have to do, say ƒ/4 or ƒ/5.6.
The shallow depth-of-field makes the subject pop out of the photo.
The closer you get to the subject, the even shallower depth-of-field becomes with the lens.
The other cool thing I love about giving clients photos with this lens is you cannot get this look with your iPhone.
While I love this lens, I often have to just react to a moment. I need to have more than a 35mm lens. I love a good zoom, and when photographing people, I love the Sigma 24-105mm ƒ/4 Art lens.
Sometimes I need to be wide, like in this photo of the Sunday School teacher reading a story about the Protestant Reformer Martin Luther.
Next, I need to go a little tighter in the photo.
Then I am right back out shooting wide again.
I like working around three to five feet of the people I photograph. Sometimes I might get a little closer or have something in between me and the subject that backs me up.
I am on the other side of the table with this lady in the Sunday School class. But I could get a little closer by zooming.
Here the lady is in between this lady and me smiling. But I could isolate her and make you, the audience, look where I want you to look.
Next, I turn and get some shots of the teacher. You cannot run everywhere on a photo shoot without becoming the focus of everyone. That often happens when I have just a couple of fixed lenses. I might have an 85mm ƒ/1.8 on one camera and then the 35mm ƒ/1.4 on the other camera, but with the zoom, I can get much better compositions without moving so much that I become distracted.
I rarely use on-camera flash, but I had no assistant, and setting up a light stand would have been knocked over with so many people. The people were backlit and were pretty much a silhouette. I filled in using the Godox V860IIN with MagMod sphere to soften and spread the light. I used slow sync and was able to capture this moment with the Sigma 24-105mm ƒ/4 Art lens.
My goal was to give the client a variety. You cannot do that with one lens as quickly as mixing up the looks with a few lenses.
I hope these insights help you on your next photo shoot.
For the past nine to ten years, I have made a journey to Mark Johnson’s Advanced Photojournalism class at the Grady School of Journalism on the campus of the University of Georgia. I present how to make a living as a photographer each time.
During this last visit, three of Mark’s former students I work with on my Chick-fil-A account also came to the class. They had all been in the class when I spoke in the past.
Earlier in the morning, Brenna Chambliss and I did a video shoot in town with a Chick-fil-A operator. She was my client and directed the project. Just a few years ago, she was one of Mark’s students.
After we finished that morning, Brenna took me around campus for a tour. I got to ring the bell on campus. I had never done that before. That was an excellent experience.
Brenna told me she learned more about life lessons from Mark Johnson than from other UGA classes. He was the person that helped her understand that it is all about relationships.
The program has grown in the past few years. They now have 80 students taking the introductory photojournalism class, and his advanced class has 20 students, whereas, in the past, that was limited to 16.
My presentation you can download it from the link above.
The best part about having Jackie, Brenna, and Mercedes is that they were the evidence that there are jobs in the industry for the students.
During the class and afterward, the students asked many questions and talked with all of us.
Mark got a lot of hugs from Jackie, Brenna, and Mercedes. Now that they have been working for a few years, they know even more about how much Mark prepared them for today’s jobs.
During the presentation, I realized I could ask the three who were with me some points I wanted to make. When she meets with a client, I ask Jackie what she talks to them about for a project. She wasn’t expecting this, and we hadn’t rehearsed, but she listed how she would ask questions about why they needed something. She would then talk to them so that all the ideas addressed that need. She also gives them options.
I then put up the PowerPoint slide, which said exactly what I had prepared. I knew Jackie would know what to say because professional communicators who do a great job start with asking clients questions to help them meet those objectives that sometimes they haven’t thought about.
For more than nine years, I have gone to the class, met people, and helped some of them find jobs with Chick-fil-A or even steered them to other employers. I have helped some of them with internships in the summer with WinShape Camps, a non-profit run by the family that owns Chick-fil-A.
When I was first asked if it was OK if the three ladies came along, they were thinking more about how wonderful it would be to visit and see Mark Johnson. Their question was how they could justify going to the class away from their jobs. I suggested they make it a recruiting trip.
Ken Willis, their agency’s boss, understood what I was suggesting and made it a recruiting time for them.
When I asked Jackie how she thinks it went for possible people, she had an excellent response, “We will see who follows up.”
Not all 20 students met with one of the three that came to recruit. Some had to go to other classes and take their cards. Some talked to them.
I suggest that whenever a possible employer comes to your class, do your best to meet them. Show interest in them and try to learn as much as you can about their work environment and what they do. There is no job to turn down until they offer one.
If you take their card, write them a letter thanking them for coming. Why? The reason is quite simple. You need to network and build your contact database and build relationships. While you may not work for the person you meet, they are often a great resource with their network to put you in touch with someone who might be a better fit. You can’t find this out unless you attempt to build those relationships that will become your network for the rest of your life.
I am often asked to go to places and photograph where the lighting is just not that great. One of the worst places to go is to gyms.
The reason is that they often use Fluorescent or Silver Halide lights that require you to shoot above 1/60 shutter speed if you are trying to freeze action. This can introduce banding into your photos. It can also change the color frame to frame, as shown here.
I thought. First, there was enough natural light coming into the room from the windows, but the lights hanging from the ceiling were impacting the walls and the people.
The easiest thing to do was to light the whole room up with four strobes pointing to the ceiling, and you fix a few things. Once the color looks much better, you can shoot at a lower ISO and reduce noise. Most importantly, there is a consistency that without the strobes, you would get color banding due to the lights flickering.
I had to drag the gear and set up the lights from room to room. This is why I hire photo assistants to help me out.
Here I overpowered the room lights but still picked up some natural light.
Even outside, the strobes can improve a situation. Here without the strobes, and then I added it.
My suggestion when trying this for the first time is always first to shoot test shots without strobes. Then add them and see if they make it look better. Sometimes adding strobes can kill an ideal lighting situation. Always test and don’t assume anything.
If you are in the service industry, you are most likely trained and understand the importance of eye contact.
Eye Contact is an essential part of using practical communication skills. People are more likely to comply when more eye contact is used. Eye Contact establishes a connection between the person. Eye contact also tells us whether the other person is paying attention. Maintaining eye contact during communication will make your presentation much more effective.
Now when I started to encounter other cultures, I couldn’t understand why some people didn’t give me eye contact. Come to find out, as a man having eye contact with a single woman means you intend to marry them. In many cultures, it is shown as a sign of respect not to look you in the eye.
I mention the cultural differences because you must understand your context like everything. You don’t want to do something that you think is the correct way to behave only to find out you were offending people or now must marry someone.
When your listeners see your eyes scanning their faces, they feel invited to engage with you. They feel encouraged to signal how they think about what you’re saying–with nods, frowns, or skeptical raises of their eyebrows.
As a result, your listeners are transformed from passive receivers to active participants. Your monologue takes the form of a dialogue, albeit in which you speak words while they speak with gestures and facial expressions. Your speech or presentation is suddenly a conversation.
When I am in a culture and don’t speak the language, all I have is my body language and, most important, eye contact and facial expressions to communicate. I use this to ask for permission to photograph.
Now depending on your perspective, you change the conversation. When you look down on the little boy where you put the camera in the position that is most associated with an adult over a child. The adult is responsible for that child. This is a great way to create empathy for a subject.
This graphic demonstrates the parent-to-child relationship. This next one shows the child-to-parent relationship.
Now here I am, slightly lower than the eyes of Don Rutledge as he is talking, which gives him the position of authority.
His expression can make him look like a warm or cold leader, but I have designated him as an authority because I am looking up at him.
When you are eye to eye with another adult, we call this being on their level, a good friend.
Now the exciting thing to me is if you are an adult and get on eye level with kids, it does something else. It makes those viewing the photograph equal to a child, tapping into those remembrances of being a child.
The child’s head, while looking down, shows modesty or lack of self-confidence, guilt, etc. In other words, her body posture adds another layer of meaning to the photograph beyond me trying to be on her same level by being at eye level with her.