This morning, I made a simple mistake in Quicken—one of those errors where you realize it just a second too late. I had to pull out the Time Machine backup, go back a few days, and restore the Quicken file. It worked, but I was drained afterward—way more than I expected. It was like the smallest thing completely zapped my energy.

If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken.

Stress Doesn’t Always Announce Itself Loudly

Sometimes, stress doesn’t come from panic attacks or big emotional outbursts. It’s quieter. Subtler. It might show up like this:

• You feel exhausted after a basic task.
• You’re foggy-headed, but not sure why.
• You’re spending hours at the computer and still feel behind.
• You lose your patience faster, even with yourself.
• Your motivation feels buried under a fog of “meh.”

These can all be signs of burnout, especially when your regular rhythms are out of sync.

A big part of this was realizing how much I miss being out in the field—telling stories with my camera, not just behind a screen. I’ve spent years helping nonprofits and businesses craft their message visually, and when that rhythm slows down, it hits hard.

You’re Not the Only One

I’m learning — and maybe you are too — that this experience isn’t unique.

I talk to other creatives, nonprofit workers, small business owners… and there’s a theme: work has changed, pace has shifted, and many are left wondering, “Is it just me? Did I do something wrong?”

It’s not just you. These kinds of dry seasons can happen to anyone, and their weight adds up if we try to push through without processing them.

So What Can We Do About It?

Here are a few things I’ve been doing (and recommending) that help me move forward — slowly, intentionally, and with hope:

1. Check in with yourself like you would a friend

You’d never tell a tired friend, “Well, just try harder.” So give yourself the same grace. Ask:

• What do I need right now — rest, movement, connection?
• Am I operating out of fear or purpose?

2. Reconnect with people who already know your value

Instead of chasing new leads, I’ve started reaching out to past clients. Just checking in, reminding them I’m here, and seeing how they’re doing. These are the relationships where trust is already built.

3. Create small, clear offers

Sometimes people don’t hire you because they don’t know how to. I’ve been working on packaging things more clearly — story-driven videos, photo sessions, or even consulting. That way, it’s easy to say yes when someone is ready.

4. Share your own story

This post is part of me practicing what I preach. Vulnerability creates connection — sometimes, that opens the next door.

5. Rest isn’t optional — it’s fuel

Resting doesn’t mean you’re giving up. It means you’re smart enough to know you can’t run on empty. I’m learning this the hard way, but I’m learning it.

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If you’re in a season like this, I see you. And if you want to talk through ideas, get perspective, or just hear, “No, you’re not crazy,” — I’m around.

We’re all storytelling through seasons. This happens to be one of mine. Thanks for being part of the journey.

As a storyteller and brand builder, I’ve found that embedding GPS data and utilizing facial recognition in my photography workflow enhances my organization and adds immense value for my clients. These tools go beyond the basic EXIF data, providing deeper insights and context to each image.

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📍 The Power of GPS in Photography

With my Nikon Z9, GPS data is embedded directly into each photo. For my Nikon Z6, I sync GPS data using my smartphone, ensuring location information is captured even when the camera lacks built-in GPS. This geotagging is invaluable, especially when revisiting shoots or organizing large photo libraries. Camera Bits, Inc.+2forums.camerabits.com+2Camera Bits, Inc.+2

However, GPS signals can be unreliable indoors. I take a single photo outside the building to capture accurate GPS data to address this. Then, using Photo Mechanic, I apply this GPS information to all other images from the session:

1. Select all relevant images.
2. Right-click and choose “Set GPS Coordinates.”
3. Input the GPS data from the outdoor photo.
4. Click “Accept Location” and then “Apply to All.” forums.camerabits.com+3forums.camerabits.com+3Camera Bits, Inc.+3YouTube+8Camera Bits, Inc.+8forums.camerabits.com+8

This method ensures consistency across your photo set, even when GPS data isn’t available for every shot.

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🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Organizing with Face Recognition in Lightroom

Lightroom Classic’s facial recognition feature is a game-changer for organizing photos: Tutkit.com+7Adobe Help Center+7Adobe Help Center+7

1. In the Library module, switch to the People view by selecting View > People or pressing “O.”
2. Lightroom scans your catalog for faces, grouping similar ones.
3. Assign names to recognized faces, allowing Lightroom to tag them across your library. Honcho+3Adobe Help Center+3Tutkit.com+3SLR Lounge+3Honcho+3Lightroom Killer Tips+3

This system becomes more accurate over time, making locating photos of specific individuals easier, whether for personal memories or client projects.

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🔍 Enhanced Search Capabilities

Combining EXIF data, GPS information, and facial recognition allows for powerful search functionalities:

• EXIF Data: Search by camera settings like aperture, shutter speed, or ISO.
• GPS Data: Find photos taken at specific locations or within certain geographic areas.
• Facial Recognition: Quickly locate all images featuring a particular person.

This comprehensive metadata approach streamlines finding and organizing photos, saving time and enhancing efficiency. Camera Bits, Inc.

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🤝 Benefits for Clients

When working with clients, these tools offer additional advantages:

• Event Coverage: Clients can easily identify and access photos from specific events or locations.
• Personnel Tracking: Facial recognition helps catalog images of staff or participants, which is helpful for internal records or promotional materials.
• Customized Deliverables: Providing organized and searchable photo libraries adds value to your service, enhancing client satisfaction.

By leveraging GPS and facial recognition technologies, I improve my workflow and deliver a more comprehensive and user-friendly product to my clients.

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For a visual guide on using facial recognition in Lightroom Classic, check out the following tutorial: Tutkit.com+4Adobe Help Center+4Adobe Help Center+4

This video provides step-by-step instructions to help you organize your photos using facial recognition.

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Embracing these technologies has transformed how I manage and deliver photographic content, making the process more efficient and enriching the storytelling experience for myself and my clients.

Photo Caption: David and Tami Woods are beginning a new chapter in Bobo, Burkina Faso—and they’re not doing it alone. As they move into their new home, they were welcomed by homeowner M. Augustus Dembele (blue boubou) and supported by local friends who helped unload the truck: Karim Illa (brown boubou), Abraham Tankoano (checkered shirt), Colette Dembele (blue jean dress), and Ejemeba Dembele (brown top). This move isn’t just about a new house—it’s about building relationships and walking together in community.

Editorial Note Update:
After receiving thoughtful feedback, I want to clarify a distinction not fully expressed in the post. While the missionary I referenced still works where the Gospel is needed, the context matters: there’s a difference between serving in regions where 70% or more of the population already identifies as Christian and those where less than 2% have access to the message of Jesus. The latter often means people have little to no opportunity to hear and understand who Jesus is. That’s an important nuance in how we talk about missions—and why word choice does matter.

If you’ve been around faith-based nonprofits or international ministry work long enough, you’ve probably heard these words:

“I’m heading to Africa as a missionary.”

But here’s the thing: many countries people are “going to” today have more Christians and more active churches than the countries they’re coming from. Places like Nigeria, Kenya, and Ethiopia aren’t just “reached”—they send missionaries to Europe and North America.

So what happens when we continue to use outdated words like “missions” or “missionary”?

It sends the wrong message.

Even with good intentions, it can sound like we’re arriving to fix or lead—when the church is already thriving. These words can accidentally carry the baggage of colonial-era ministry: one-way help, top-down control, and a posture that doesn’t reflect today’s reality.

Our language needs to grow with our purpose.

Most of the global work happening now isn’t about proselytizing. It’s about partnership.
It’s about equipping, learning, building up, and being invited into what local churches are already doing.

That means it’s time to consider better words. Words that reflect mutuality and humility, like:

• “Cross-cultural partnership”
• “Global service”
• “Faith-based collaboration”
• “Supporting local leaders”
• Or even plainly say what you do: “I help train media teams in Uganda.”

We’re not just changing labels—we’re telling better stories.

As a visual storyteller and brand consultant, I’ve seen how a single word can shift the perception of an entire mission. The language we use becomes the lens through which people see our work. That’s why this change matters.

It’s not about semantics.
It’s about truth.
It’s about respect.
And it’s about showing up in a way that honors the people we’re working with, not just working for.

If you’re in this space—whether you serve, support, or send people into cross-cultural ministry—consider how you communicate the “why” and “how” of that work. The more clearly and authentically we speak, the more trust and impact we build.

Have thoughts on this? I’d love to hear your take.

Please drop me a comment or shoot me a message.

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Ministry vs. Missions: Understanding the Church’s Two Fronts

Ministry

Ministry refers to any act of service done in the name of Christ, often within the local church or Christian community. It’s the day-to-day expression of faith—serving others, teaching, leading worship, counseling, discipling, or running programs like youth groups, food banks, or small groups. Ministry often focuses on building up the body of Christ (believers) and supporting the local church.

Example: Leading a Bible study, organizing church events, or serving as a pastor are all forms of ministry.

Missions

On the other hand, Missions is about going beyond your immediate cultural or geographic context to bring the gospel to people who don’t yet know Jesus, especially those with little or no access to it. It’s often associated with cross-cultural work and focuses on evangelism, church planting, and discipleship in places or among people groups where Christ is not yet known.

Example: A missionary going to an unreached tribe in Southeast Asia, or even someone planting a church in a spiritually dry part of a Western country, is engaged in missions.

The Core Difference:

• Ministry is usually within the church or to those already exposed to the gospel.
• Missions are about reaching out beyond the church, often cross-culturally, to those who have not heard the gospel.

When people ask me why I still shoot in RAW instead of JPEG or TIFF, I smile and say, “It’s about options.” But let me break that down a bit more, because the truth is—RAW gives me the latitude I need to tell better stories.

In photography, light is our paintbrush. But we don’t always have perfect light. You may shoot in mixed lighting, harsh sun, or an indoor scene where the shadows swallow your subject. That’s where RAW steps in and saves the day.

White Balance Fixes After the Fact

When you shoot in JPEG, your white balance is baked in. Miss it, and your colors are stuck in that decision. But a RAW file? It’s like a digital negative. You can shift the white balance in post without degrading your image. That means more accurate skin tones, true-to-life colors, and fewer frustrated hours trying to “fix it in Photoshop.”

Recovering Highlights and Opening Shadows

Have you ever had a blown-out sky or lost detail in someone’s face because they were backlit? A JPEG may be toast. A RAW file, on the other hand, holds onto way more detail, especially in the highlights and shadows. You can pull back that blown sky or lift the shadows under a brimmed hat without making your image look fake.

AI Tools Make RAW Even More Powerful

And here’s what’s exciting in 2025: I can now make complex, local adjustments with Adobe’s AI masking tools with just a click. What used to take me an hour or more—masking a face, background, or clothing individually—can now be done in seconds.

Want to brighten just the subject’s face without touching the rest of the photo? AI does it.

Want to open up the shadows in a forest scene without overexposing the sky? AI does it.

But here’s the kicker: these tools are only as powerful as the data you give them. If you’re shooting JPEG, that latitude—the dynamic range, the color depth—is already compressed and limited. AI can’t recover what’s not there. But with RAW, all those details are still in your file. The AI helps you bring it out.

Final Thought

I shoot RAW because I believe every story deserves to be told with depth, clarity, and emotion—and RAW gives me the room to do that. Especially now, when the tools are so good, there’s no reason not to take full advantage of what your camera can capture.

So whether you’re shooting for clients, nonprofits, or just making images you love—give yourself the gift of latitude.

Shoot RAW. Tell it better.

Everywhere you turn, someone’s talking about how AI is changing everything—from writing scripts to editing videos and even generating photos. As a storyteller who’s spent decades working alongside nonprofits, missionaries, and small businesses, I see the power of these tools. They can speed up workflows and help organize ideas. But here’s the truth that too often gets overlooked:

AI doesn’t feel. It can’t listen with its heart. It can’t sit quietly in a room and sense what’s happening beneath the surface.

I’ve been in huts in West Africa, cramped apartments in Eastern Europe, and rural towns across the U.S.—camera in hand, listening for the heartbeat of a story. What makes those stories resonate isn’t just the visuals or clean audio. It’s the empathy. It’s the relationship I’ve built with the person sitting across from me. It’s knowing when to ask a question, and more importantly, when not to.

AI can string together words, but it can’t replace presence. One moment that stays with me was while filming a missionary family in Togo. As the mother shared about the challenges they faced with their child’s health, there was a pause—her eyes filled with tears. That silence… that space… spoke louder than words. I didn’t interrupt. I didn’t prompt her to keep talking. I just let the moment breathe.

AI would’ve missed that. Or worse, tried to fill it in with what it thinks people want to hear.

The same goes for storytelling through photos. One of my mentors, Don Rutledge, taught me the power of context. A great image isn’t just about lighting and composition. It’s about showing people within their world—the complete picture of their dignity, struggle, and joy. That takes patience, trust, and relationship-building. AI can generate an image, sure. But it won’t travel the world with you. It won’t pray with a family before you hit “record.”

When a nonprofit or mission agency hires me, they’re not just hiring a camera operator. They’re inviting a partner who knows how to listen well, ask the right questions, and honor the stories they hold sacred.

That’s why human storytellers still matter.

In an AI-saturated world, authenticity is our superpower—not perfection or polish, but honest, human connection.

So, while I embrace today’s tools, I hold even tighter to the craft I’ve been honing for 40+ years—storytelling that breathes, connects, and changes lives.

Because stories still matter. And so do the people who tell them.

Rose Nantonah, a nurse, is setting up an IV with a child patient at the Baptist Medical Center in Nalerigu, Ghana.

Today is National Nurses Day, and I want to take a moment to recognize the often unseen and underappreciated heroes working on the front lines of healthcare worldwide: nurses.

In my work as a visual storyteller, I’ve had the privilege of photographing nurses in Ghana, Togo, and Nicaragua, and what I witnessed left a lasting impact on me.

Today, on International Nurses Day, we honor the dedicated nurses at Baptist Medical Centre (BMC) in Nalerigu, Ghana. Since its founding in 1958 by IMB missionary Dr. George Faile II, BMC has been a beacon of healing and hope in northern Ghana. Nurses at BMC play a vital role in providing compassionate care, often going above and beyond their duties to serve patients from Ghana and neighboring countries.

Nurses at BMC are the heart of this mission. From the pioneering days of missionary nurse Diana Floretta Lay, who served for 37 years and helped expand the hospital from 40 to 110 beds, to today’s local professionals like Senior Nursing Officer Kingsley Kombat, their commitment has never wavered. Despite resource limitations, these nurses provide critical care gracefully and resiliently, often under challenging conditions. Their work addresses physical ailments and embodies the love and compassion central to their faith, profoundly impacting the communities they serve.

We celebrate the extraordinary nurses serving at Hôpital Baptiste Biblique (HBB) in Tsiko, Togo. Since its founding in 1985, HBB has provided compassionate, Christ-centered care to thousands, with nurses at the heart of this mission. These dedicated professionals not only tend to physical ailments but also share the hope of the gospel with every patient, embodying a holistic approach to healing.

The hospital’s three-year Nursing Education Program, established in 1997, has been instrumental in training Togolese men and women to serve their communities through nursing. Graduates of this program are equipped to provide care that addresses spiritual, physical, emotional, social, and intellectual needs. Their commitment has been vital in sustaining the hospital’s operations and expanding its reach through mobile health clinics and community health evangelism initiatives.

In Nicaragua, I had the honor of documenting Tracy Warner, a nurse who ventured into remote villages to care for people who rarely, if ever, saw a medical professional. With no backup team, no modern equipment, and limited resources, Tracy offered what she had — skilled hands, a listening ear, and a heart for the people she served. Watching her work was a powerful reminder that healthcare isn’t just about medicine — it’s about presence.

These moments remind me that nursing is more than a job—it’s a calling. While today many of us will celebrate nurses in our local hospitals and clinics (rightfully so!), let’s also remember those serving quietly, faithfully, and courageously in some of the world’s hardest-to-reach places.

I’m sharing a few photos to show the conditions and honor the spirit of care that transcends borders.

To all the nurses out there: Thank you. You are seen, appreciated, and a hero.

For as long as I can remember, words have never quite been enough.

They often come out tangled, too late, or not at all. Growing up on the autism spectrum, I struggled with language, both the written word and the spoken one. But there was always something else… something that felt like a native language to me.

Music
Photography

Two art forms couldn’t be more different in how they look, but they are the same in how they feel. Both are languages of the soul, bypassing the noise of words and letting something deeper rise to the surface.

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A Melody or a Moment Can Say What I Can’t

When I pick up my trumpet, flugelhorn, or cornet, it’s not just to make sound — it’s to make sense of my world. The same thing happens when I lift a camera to my eye. These aren’t hobbies or skills I’ve picked up; they’re how I speak when speaking fails.

Research shows that music and photography light up some of the brain’s emotional and sensory centers. I didn’t need science to tell me that — I’ve lived it. For those of us who process the world differently, structure and creativity aren’t opposites — they’re allies.

A camera has settings, and a trumpet has keys and scales. That structure gives me freedom. I can tell a story and show my feelings without getting lost in sentences that never quite land.

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The Power of Being Seen and Heard — Without Speaking

Both photography and music are about noticing the details most people miss:

– A glimmer of light on a face.
– The shift in a minor chord that turns happiness into longing.
– The moment before the tear falls.

People on the spectrum often have heightened sensitivity to light, sound, texture, and emotion. Some see these as “challenges.” But in the arts, they become superpowers. They allow us to go deeper, to notice what’s underneath the surface, and to bring it into the light or give it voice.

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When Friends Say Nothing, It Means Everything

Despite how much I’ve learned, words still have their limits. In moments of deep sadness or grief, I’ve found that the most healing thing isn’t what people say — it’s simply that they show up and sit with me.

Silence, shared presence, a held hand, or a friend just being there — these are often more powerful than any comforting phrase. Just like a photo can speak a thousand words, or a melody can bring tears without lyrics, presence is its language.

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This Is Why I Do What I Do

As a storyteller, musician, and photographer, I help others find their voice, especially when words don’t come easily. I work with nonprofits, missionaries, and businesses to help them show the world who they are through images and story-driven visuals.

And maybe… just maybe… I’m not just telling their stories.
I’m telling mine too.

Whether it’s through a lens or a brass bell, I’ve learned this:

You don’t have to speak to be heard.
You don’t have to write to be understood.
And sometimes, the most powerful stories are the ones that live in silence — until we’re brave enough to give them sound or light.

Photo by Dennis Fahringer

If you’ve ever worked with me, you know I’m constantly learning. That’s not just a professional habit—it’s wired into who I am.

Being on the autism spectrum has given me a deep appreciation for order, patterns, and systems. I always looked at how things worked beneath the surface as a kid. I use that same instinct in my photography, video, and storytelling work today. Once I recognize a pattern—whether it’s how people move through a scene, how a nonprofit connects with donors, or how light transforms a subject—I can build on it, refine it, and teach it.

Over time, I’ve learned how powerful this is in a constantly changing world. Technology, communication styles, and visual trends shift fast. But when you understand the structure underneath them, you don’t get overwhelmed—you adapt, and you help others do the same.

For example, one of the most significant breakthroughs in my work came when I began to study body language. I realized that reading subtle shifts in posture or expression wasn’t just about being aware but about anticipating moments. This allows me to capture authentic emotion in real time, not just take technically correct photos. It’s what helps me tell visual stories that move people.

The same is true when I work with organizations. I don’t just show up with a camera—I show up with curiosity. I ask questions. I dig for the patterns behind your mission. I want to know what drives your team, what stories your audience needs to hear, and how to connect those dots to your larger goals. That comes from a lifetime of seeing systems where others might see noise.

Learning Empathy—and the Value of Blunt Truth

One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced as an autistic person is learning how to read people emotionally. I’ve always been aware that it doesn’t come naturally for me to pick up on subtle emotional cues or to instinctively respond with empathy in the moment. It’s not that I don’t care—it’s that I often have to pause, study, and think my way through what others pick up intuitively.

Growing in this area has taken years of intentional effort, and I’m still learning. But here’s what I’ve discovered: because I’ve had to work at empathy, I now approach people with a more profound respect for their stories. I ask more questions, listen more closely, and do my best to communicate that I’m in your corner.

That said, sometimes I come across as blunt. I speak directly. I say what I see. For some, that’s surprising. But for many of my clients, that’s also why they trust me. I won’t sugarcoat or sell you something that doesn’t serve your story. If I see a better way, I’ll say it—not to criticize, but because I want you to succeed. I’ve learned that clarity, paired with compassion, is a powerful combination.

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This is Why I Do What I Do

I’ve realized that what once made me feel different is my greatest strength. Being on the autism spectrum means I notice things others may miss. I look for the rule behind the moment, and once I find it, I can build something meaningful from it. That’s why I’m so passionate about storytelling. It’s how I make sense of the world —and help others do the same.

So if you’re looking for someone who brings skill and deep attention to the “why” behind your story, I do that. And it’s not just work—it’s how I’m wired.

Over the past few years, I’ve walked alongside many of you through conversations, workshops, and stories shared under the name FOCUS. That space was born from a desire to gather with like-minded storytellers, visual creatives, and communicators who want to grow, encourage each other, and ultimately sharpen our craft for something bigger than ourselves.

But like any good story, the journey evolves.

Today, I’m excited to share a fresh chapter: FOCUS is now The Story Thread.

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Why the Change?

The word FOCUS served us well. It spoke to clarity, direction, and the intentionality we all aim for in our work. But as our conversations have deepened, I noticed a common thread—no pun intended—running through it all: story.

Whether you’re behind a camera, writing copy, coaching a nonprofit team, or working with missionaries on the field, we’re all chasing the same thing. This meaningful story connects people to purpose.

The Story Thread reflects the heartbeat of what we’ve been doing all along. It’s a space for those who don’t just want to create content, but who want to weave stories that matter — stories that bring clarity, stir compassion, and move people to action.

My Journey to This Point

As a storyteller and brand builder working with nonprofits, Christian ministries, and businesses around the globe, I’ve seen firsthand how powerful stories can be when handled with care. But I’ve also seen how isolating the creative journey can feel. Many of us do this work solo—wearing all the hats, figuring things out as we go, and sometimes wondering if we’re making a difference.

That’s why I created this community in the first place.

This name change isn’t just cosmetic. It’s a recommitment to what I hope The Story Thread becomes—a space where people who care about story, truth, and transformation can link arms and grow together.

You’re Invited: The Story Thread Zoom Call

When: May 9, 2025, 10:00 am – 11:00 am EST
Where: Zoom (email me for the link)
What to Expect:

• Introduction to The Story Thread
• A chance to share where you are in your own creative/storytelling journey
• A discussion around future topics and how we can support each other
• Open Q&A

This isn’t just a meeting — it’s the start of a conversation I hope will continue in many directions. Whether you’ve been part of the community for a while or this is your first time hearing about it, you’re welcome here.

If something lights up inside you when you hear “purposeful storytelling,” or you’re hungry for a place where your creative faith and calling intersect, The Story Thread was created with you in mind.

Let’s explore where this can go together.

Every face tells a story. Consistent, human-centered storytelling cuts through and connects in a world overwhelmed by noise. It’s not about saying more—it’s about saying what matters, clearly and consistently.

We live in a world overflowing with noise—messages coming at us from every angle, all vying for attention. It’s easy to feel like your voice, no matter how important your mission, is getting drowned out. That’s why consistency in your messaging—and especially in your storytelling—is one of the most powerful tools you can use to rise above the clutter.

And let’s be clear: storytelling isn’t just a marketing tactic. It’s how you shape identity. It’s how you build trust. It’s how you get people to feel something, not just know what you do, but care about why you do it.

Why Consistency Matters

Imagine hearing about a nonprofit that supports vulnerable families. One week, their story is about clean water. Next, it’s about education. Then it’s disaster relief. While all these causes may be related, if the message feels scattered, the audience won’t know what to latch onto. Inconsistent messaging confuses people, and those who are confused are less likely to take action.

On the other hand, the most memorable organizations and brands stick to a core theme. Think of Charity: Water—every story they share ties back to one consistent narrative: clean water changes everything. Or TOMS Shoes—their early success was fueled by the “One for One” story that made every purchase feel like an act of kindness.

That consistency gives your audience something solid to stand on. When people see the same message, the same voice, and the same values reinforced over time, trust grows. They feel like they know you. And when they know you, they’re more likely to support you.

How Storytelling Anchors Your Message

The beauty of storytelling is that it’s flexible enough to showcase different aspects of your work, but focused enough to keep your core message intact. Every story doesn’t have to be identical, but each one should reflect the heart of your mission.

For example, suppose you’re a ministry that helps people find purpose through community. In that case, every story you tell—whether it’s about a food drive, a mentoring relationship, or a worship night—should be framed through that lens. That’s your anchor.

The same goes for your tone and style. If your stories are usually hopeful and uplifting, don’t suddenly shift into fear-based messaging to get attention. That inconsistency will erode trust, not build it.

Tips for Keeping Your Messaging Consistent

Here are a few simple ways to maintain consistency while still keeping your storytelling fresh:

1. Define Your Core Narrative
   Know what you stand for. Please write it down. Make sure your entire team is aware of this as well. Everything you create—videos, blog posts, social media updates—should reinforce this central story.
2. Create a Visual and Verbal Style Guide
   Use consistent language, colors, and imagery that reflect your brand’s voice and values. Whether you’re showing up on Instagram, YouTube, or a newsletter, your audience should recognize your presence.
3. Use Real Stories to Highlight One Theme
   Let your content breathe with variety, but keep it connected. Feature different people and projects, but filter each story through a consistent theme or value, like hope, restoration, or empowerment.
4. Repeat Without Apologizing
   Don’t be afraid to say the same thing in different ways. Repetition isn’t monotonous—it’s what builds brand recognition and trust. Your audience often needs to hear the same story multiple times before it sticks.

A Visual Suggestion

Use a photo collage or carousel post showing a series of images that represent your organization’s impact, but with one consistent theme (e.g., “transformation,” “community,” or “hope”) overlayed in text across each image. Bonus: Pair it with a short caption or story to drive the theme home.

Alternatively, a quote graphic works well too. One of my favorite quotes on this topic comes from Simon Sinek:

“People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it. And what you do simply proves what you believe.”

Use that as a rallying cry across your content.

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Final Thought

In a world full of messages, your goal isn’t just to be louder—it’s to be clearer. Consistency in storytelling helps you do just that. It cuts through the noise and builds a foundation of trust with your audience.

Before sending the following message, ask: Does this reflect who we are and why we exist? When the answer is yes—over and over again—you’ll see a real connection take root.

“People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it. And what you do simply proves what you believe.”

—Simon Sinek

In a world bombarded with messages from every direction, it’s easy to feel lost in the noise. But one tool that has always stood the test of time: storytelling. Whether you’re leading a nonprofit, a ministry, or a business, your stories can make all the difference in building lasting, meaningful relationships with your audience.

When we think of storytelling, we often focus on its role in marketing – driving donations, building awareness, or promoting an event. But storytelling goes far beyond that. At its heart, storytelling is about building connections, about creating a space where your audience feels understood, valued, and part of something bigger than themselves.

**Why Relationships Matter More Than Ever ** Let’s step back. Think about the organizations you care about. What makes you stay connected to them? Chances are, it’s not just their products or services, but the relationship they’ve built with you. You trust them. You resonate with their mission. They make you feel like you’re not just a donor, customer, or supporter but part of their community.

For nonprofits and ministries, this relationship-building is essential. You’re not just trying to meet an immediate need; you’re trying to create a lasting impact. You’re cultivating a community that will stand by you through every challenge and every triumph. And the best way to do that? Tell a story that invites your audience into the journey.

Storytelling as a Bridge to Connection

So, why does storytelling work so well for relationship-building? It’s simple: stories are human. They tap into universal emotions like love, fear, hope, and joy. Hearing a story that resonates with their own experiences or values creates an emotional connection. That’s the foundation of any strong relationship – emotional resonance.

Take a moment to think about the stories that have stuck with you. What made them memorable? Was it the plot? The visuals? Or was it the way those stories made you feel? Whetheit’s’s a film, a book, or a personal anecdote, the stories that stay with uaren’t’t necessarily the ones with the most complicated twists or the highest stakesThey’rere the ones that spoke to us on a deeper level, that made us see something in ourselves or the world that we hadn’t noticed before. That’s what storytelling does for your audience. It creates an emotional bond that transcends mere transactions. Your audience will remember how you made them feel, not just the facts or the outcomes. And when you create that connection, your supporters will feel more invested in your cause. They won’t just be passive observers; they’ll be active participants in your mission.

Storytelling as a Tool for Trust

Trust is another essential ingredient in any relationship. People won’t engage with your organization if they don’t trust you, and they won’t stay engaged if they don’t believe in your vision. Stories help build that trust by showing your audience who you are, what you stand for, and why you’re passionate about your mission.

When you share stories about the people you serve, the challenges you face, and the victories you celebrate, you’re being transparent. You’re letting your audience see the real, human side of your work. They get a front-row seat to your journey, with all its ups and downs. This authenticity is what breeds trust. It’s what turns a one-time donor into a long-term supporter.

How to Use Storytelling to Build Relationships: where the rubber meets the road: how can you use storytelling to build stronger relationships with your audience? Here are a few tips:

1. Focus on the People
   While your mission is essential, the people behind it are what make it relatable. Share stories about the individuals you serve – their dreams, their struggles, their transformations. Show your audience how their support directly impacts real people, and make them feel like they’re part of those stories.
2. Be Authentic
   People can spot a fake story from a mile away. Be honest about your journey – the successes and the failures. Vulnerability builds connection; don’t be afraid to share the challenges and setbacks that come with your work. It’s through those struggles that your audience will relate to you the most.
3. Use Visuals to Enhance the Story
   They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and that couldn’t be more true when it comes to storytelling. Powerful imagery can amplify the emotional impact of your story. Whether it’s a photo that captures a meaningful moment or a video that brings the story to life, visuals can create an immediate connection that words alone can’t achieve.
4. Invite Your Audience into the Story
   Encourage your supporters to become part of the narrative. Share stories about the impact of their involvement, whether through a donation, volunteering, or simply spreading the word. When people feel part of the story, their connection to your mission deepens.
5. Be Consistent
   Building relationships takes time. Make storytelling a regular part of your communication strategy. Whether through social media, email updates, or blog posts, continue to share your story – and ensure it evolves. People want to see how their support is making a difference over time.

The Power of a Good Story

Ultimately, storytelling is not just about sharing information but also about creating a lasting bond with your audience and inviting people to be part of something bigger than themselves. When you build that connection, you make a community that will stand by you, not just for one campaign but for the long haul.

So, the next time you sit down to craft a message, ask yourself: What story am I telling today? And more importantly, how can this story help me build a deeper relationship with my audience? The power of storytelling is not just about marketing; it’s about connection, trust, and creating a community that believes in your mission as much as you do.

One of the most common conversations I have with clients starts with this:

“We need a quick video.”
or
“Can you come take a few photos for us?”

While it’s always tempting to jump straight to creating content, my experience, through decades of storytelling, has shown me something powerful:

If you don’t start with a clear story, your project will almost always fall flat.

It’s like building a house without a blueprint. Sure, you’ll end up with something — but it might not be strong enough to weather a storm, and it definitely won’t feel like “home.”

In my work, I’ve found that asking a few key questions before anything else makes all the difference:

• What’s the heart behind this story?
• What emotion do you want people to feel?
• What action do you want them to take?

When we slow down just a little to answer those questions, the final video, photo series, or campaign isn’t just beautiful — it works. It connects. It moves people.

Story first. Always.

If you’re gearing up for a new project — whether it’s a new product launch, a fundraising campaign, or a rebranding — the best thing you can do isn’t to book the photographer or videographer right away.

It’s essential to clarify your story first.

I’d be happy to help you with that.

I specialize in guiding brands and organizations to discover their authentic stories and then helping them visually convey them in a way that resonates.

If you’re interested in discussing how I can help your brand stand out, let’s connect.