The Rekindling of Relationships

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Listen to me, O house of Jacob, all the remnant of the house of Israel, whom I have borne from your birth, carried from the womb; even to your old age, I am he, even when you turn gray, I will take you. I have made and will bear; I will carry and save.” Isaiah 46:3-4

Chelle helped decorate a gingerbread house at our friend Jackie Reedy’s “Cookie Day” in 2010. Lumix DMC-TZ5. ISO 100, f/3.3, 1/4

“Chelle, can you help me put up the Christmas tree?” was my question a few years ago. Our family uses a fake tree because of our allergies; it takes time to unpack and assemble each year. My daughter had finally gotten big enough to help hand me the branches. So together, we gathered the tree, and then Dorie, my wife, helped with the ornaments and other decorations around the house. The following year, Chelle asked me, “Daddy, when are we putting up the tree?” Dorie reminded me we now had a tradition. So it continues to this day.

Our Christmas tree in 2011. Nikon Coolpix P7000, ISO 1600, f/2.8, 1/30

While I could tell you about all the symbolism of the Christmas tree, it boils down to what Christmas is about—the tradition of rekindling a relationship through the simple practice of putting up a Christmas tree. It is like the official start of the season for our family. It is a time my daughter enjoys with her father, a special time together. Likewise, as a father, it is my time to spend with my daughter.

Tacky Christmas Sweater Party for Kelly Stancil, graduating from Georgia Tech in December 2010. Lumix, DMC-TZ5. ISO 250, f/3.3, 1/30

Maybe this is what the season is about—rekindling our relationship with the Father through his Son, Jesus Christ. As long as all these traditions help and remind us to spend time with God, we are genuinely living the season.

Dear Lord, may these traditions remind me of the time I spend with you. Please help us to grow closer not only to you but to those around us this season. Please help us to celebrate the traditions in a way that draws us closer to you. Amen.

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  1. Stanley,Very nice pictures in the Bulletin this week. Yes, Advent is indeed the time to rekindle that relationship with Jesus and so enter into communion with the Most Holy Trinity. Definitely is the time to take that busy/distracted/routine/business as usual – Heart and slam on the brakes and skid into the intersection of the right dispositions to receive Him anew this Christmas ! May you and the family have a blessed one – and thanks for all you do in the many areas of Photography and ministry. You are a Man for all Seasons !

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